Saying the right thing online is the only way to get a real date. If you are cute and charming without being cheesy you will have a much better shot than others when it comes to a real life meeting. If you push too hard or come across as too strong, you will just scare them away, or worse, look like a jerk. Here are a few tips to help you find the right things to say, be cute, and not go too far.

Be Honest

If your heart flutters with the prospect of talking to her, tell her! Every woman wants to know that they have an effect on men, so don’t be afraid to let her know how you feel. Tell her you look forward to your chats, that you love her photos, her eyes, whatever you are drawn to. Just stay away from anything that is sexual in nature, and avoid using old pick-up lines. These will not get you very far, and could actually push her away.

Find Common Interests

Every woman likes to talk about things that are close to her heart. You can be very cute if you bring up something she has expressed interest in, either in a former conversation or in her profile. By bringing this up you give her something to talk about, gain her interest and trust, and you can be cute about it if you put some thought in to it. However, if she doesn’t want to talk about something don’t push it. Allow her to choose the subject if it doesn’t interest her.