May 3rd, 2011 at 4:04 pm by admin

Women dream of finding the perfect boyfriend. It’s hard to tell sometimes if your boyfriend is just acting the part in the beginning or if he’s truly a good guy. Here are a few things to look for to help you decide if he’s a good guy for you or not.

Connection

If you find that you are going out of your way to make him happy, but it doesn’t ever get returned, he may not be as connected to you as you are to him. You want a man who is going to spend time connecting with you and making you happy. Look for someone who doesn’t dominate the conversation or the other choices you make. A guy who feels a real connection will care just as much about making you happy as you do him.

Comfort Factor

It’s normal in the first few months of dating for everyone to be slightly uncomfortable. As you get to know one another and start to build the relationship you will be on your best behavior, and this can lead to some discomfort. However, a good boyfriend will be much easier to be comfortable and be yourself around. He will also be comfortable around you and show his true self. Watch for signs of comfort when you are deciding whether or not to start being exclusive.

Open and Honest

Another sign of a good boyfriend is a guy who will share his life with you. This means you won’t have to worry about trusting him, because he won’t be evasive or secretive with you. If you ask him a question he will be direct with the answer. If the subject makes him uncomfortable he will just tell you instead of dancing around it.

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